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Wondering how to make the Most Out of Your Solo Date? I had written a post on 100 solo date ideas a while back that a lot of people loved so I decided to go ahead and share some ideas that could help you if you are thinking of going out somewhere with yourself.
First of all, It’s exciting that you have decided to go on a solo date. Solo dates are one of the best ways to spend some quality time with yourself. Not only do you get to know yourself on a deeper level but it also helps you get out of your comfort zone, take actions that lead to a boost in self- confidence. After all, you get to experience things you’ve never experienced before and it’s fun.
But if this is your first time going anywhere all by yourself, here are some ways to make the most out of it.
10 Tips To Make The Most Out of Your Solo Date
1) Plan In Advance
So first thing first, whether you are planning a date to a nearby museum or a few weeks abroad, it’s always a good idea to plan in advance so you can prevent yourself from a last minute rush and headache.
Make a list of things you want to bring or do once you are there. Do research and if you can talk to someone who’s been there so they could guide you in some way. Nowadays a lot of facebook groups are there that you can join to talk to people and learn more about their trips.
People are happy to share their experience most of the time.
2) Dress Confidently
The second most important thing is to find something that you feel comfortable and confident in. I wish this one simple advice I had known when I was in my teens and even early twenties so I would be able to avoid a lot of uncomfortable situations.
I am sure we all have some pieces in our wardrobe that we feel comfortable in but that doesn’t make you feel confident in yourself while others look good but are not really comfortable to wear. If you can you find something that checks both the boxes that would be ideal. Once you feel comfortable and confident in yourself things will get a lot easier.
3) Take A Break From Socials
Aren’t we all spend hours a day scrolling through socials. It is important to be in the present moment so you can make the most out of it. But unless it is an absolute emergency, I would say that it’s a good idea to not scroll through social media- especially when you are in a public transport try to be in the moment and observe your surroundings. This may sound not so smart or fun to some but trsut me these small things matter the most. Remember this time is all about yourself.
4) Set A Budget
Budget is one of the most important steps when it comes to solo dates. Since you are all by yourself, make sure you are prepared for it. I would suggest using a spreadsheet to figure out how much money you will need for food, transport etc (totally depends on where you are going, for how long and many other factors).
I always try to set aside some cash as well even when I have multiple cards with me. You never know when you could need that soo better to be safe than sorry.
5) Embrace This New Experience
Afterall, you have been thinking of this moment for some time and you are finally here. If you are an introvert, it will be a challenge but I am sure you are ready for it- at least to a certain level.
As an introvert it’s not an easy task to make new friends or start a conversation but I am getting better at it and if you are anything like me I promise it will be worth trying and you’ll get better at it, too over time.
6) Enjoy Your Own Company
Have you ever felt that it feels great when you are making plans and you feel excited but as long as it is the time and now you are in a fence and think about maybe I shouldn’t have come alone or it would be better to come with your friend who would give you company so you wouldn’t feel soo lonely.
Again, this is something I felt more often than I like to admit but I always remind myself how this trip is important for my self-growth because if I can’t even spend some time with myself, how will I get to know myself on a deeper level and get out of my comfort zone?
7) Don’t Let Comparison Ruin Your Day
That is another reason I suggested taking a break from social media. While traveling solo, it’s important to focus on your own journey and not compare yourself to others. Your travel journey will be unique to everyone else, and it’s easy to feel out of place pretty quickly when you are not used to it, when you see others’ photos or hear their stories so better to focus on you.
If you find that difficult, here is how to not compare yourself to other people.
8) Be A Bit More Kind To Yourself
I remember my first solo date when was a college freshman and I used to go in a restaurant, I always had this thought in mind- what will people around me think of me, and I used to see if there’s anyone else who’s also there enjoying their meal alone so I won’t be the only one here and if I couldn’t find anyone else, it would make me more conscious like damn, I am the only one here sitting alone, eating.
Yes, I guess it’s normal to feel that way when you are not used to it but instead of going in a panic mode and repeating your fears in mind, tell yourself to calm down and remind yourself that it’s okay to come alone, enjoy your own company and have your meal in peace sometimes.
9) Take Photos
I sometimes feel so lucky to be in a time where we have all the technologies at our fingertips. If you think about it, it was not possible even 20 years ago.
When you are on a solo date, make the most out of it. Experience new things while capturing moments that you can keep with yourself for a long time.
Take selfies without being in a pressure to be perfect, not all the pictures have to be Instagram worthy. Capture all the moments that you think worth keeping, don’t take yourself too seriously and just have fun!
Learn How To Take Great Pictures Of Yourself Here.
10) Treat Yourself
Have you ever wondered what makes us unmotivated and uninterested in trying new things in life and why do we often don’t want to leave our comfort zone?
I believe that most often than not we don’t give ourselves enough credit for the hard work we put in. Whether it is in your day to day life or when you decide to go on a date with yourself and successfully do it.
And from last year I have decided to do change that, it doesn’t have to be anything expensive or fancy, if you are wondering, here are 50 ways you can use it to reward yourself to show yourself you care about yourself.
